There are some people in the world whose psychology is not been recognized by any body!!
Rather I can say it’s quite hard to determine them… their sentiments, their emotions, their opinions and last but not the least their view about the others…I personally think that their psychology is very much complex…they don’t treat people even their near and dear ones with true respect, love or with any kind of sympathy or an attachment…all what they think is all about themselves and about their own problem…these people does not remain satisfied or does not make others satisfy…they only belongs to their own…not for anybody not for their own families and not for any near ones…these kind of people are mainly self oriented person…they always think about their own benefits no matter what happens with the others…but they only cares about themselves…people think of them as very selfish and ruthless in nature…but I must say regarding this that these type of people are actually mentally sick…
If I say then it’s better that if any symptom of this kind is visible within any body then it will be good to visit to a proper Psychiatrist…really these sect of people need proper treatment…the main symptoms are….
1) Person will feel jealous of others…who so ever...Does not matter at all.
2) He / She will predict that everybody is jealous of them… (That which is actually not in real case)
3) He / She will suffer from immense feel of either superiority complex or of inferiority complex.
4) They will easily express their emotions and feelings in front of everyone.
5) They will try hard to insult others who ever they are…
6) They will always feel insecure from others and will always think that all people / or any particular person / persons are trying to do bad to them… (Alas! This will never happen coz; people don’t have so much time to do any harm to others…who are actually of their near ones...)
7) They may sometime would pretend to be quite or very much familiar to the other s actually what they are not.
8) They will express their anxiety / anger in front of their near ones.
9) They will always try to do harm to their targeted person whom they does not like at all…
10) They will always try to involve themselves in doing dirty politics with others.
So lastly before I shall conclude I would like to say…please visit to a Psychiatrist if these all happens to you or with anybody else.
I am insisting all of you because in my personal life I know someone who is suffering from this terrible problem…but not taking any sort of proper measures to resolve this problem…what to do? Only I can alert that person through this writing…
NB. This post is not to hurt any one personally. This is my personal observation only. :)
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Monday, August 11, 2008
All about work!!
I have a question always in my mind…what is the reason behind that every man is struggling for their survival? What makes them to work whole day…without having food properly…concentrating deeply into their work…devoting themselves completely…
Why do people work? Do they work for their own or to gain mental satisfaction or to feed their families their near and dear ones or just they are bound to do some activity as per nature’s rule…what? What drags them to work? Is it purely driven by the system of the society or by their self realization or will? In the past history our ancestors used to work for to feed their families…they worked for their survival…some did farming and some did other works…but at that time they lived a peaceful life…
But now the picture has changed…even still now to say clearly people are doing their jobs in their own fields very efficiently but still their remained a dissatisfaction…we can’t predict any person that he / she is completely happy with their work status…this is all happening just because of tremendous competition…every body is trying to gain wealth and prosperity as much as they can but nobody is thinking about the real fact…they are turning into a machine…their work culture and procedure is nothing different than a machine…yes, they might are earning for their families but they are not been able to give as much time to their near ones…these days work culture used to run like, in this manner say…a person after almost a sleepless night wakes up in the morning, have his breakfast and then run to the office…this I am telling about the office going people to those busy people who don’t have time for their families…after a long work.. suppose starting from the morn at 8 o’ clock till evening at 8:30 these people returns to their home with immense pressure and fatigue and tiredness…their health does not permit them to work or to think on the extra topic they even don’t get time to speak to their children and wives..They come like a guest who is very tired dare to sleep in their own house without any obstruction and then after having their dinner finally go to sleep, again on the next day the same case happens and it starts to repeat day after day…
These people don’t be able to maintain social relationships just because of their jobs their wish to achieve the highest position in their field and just because of the craziness for their work…can anybody state that what makes them work so much? What will bring peace in their mind and they will be able to make out a little time for their families? What happens to their families and their near ones when they see their man is working throughout the whole day without giving any attention towards them??What’s the reason behind it? Why there is so much competition?? Why the people can’t spend their times with doing all sorts of activities including their jobs simultaneously…like their own ancestors did before…why? Balancing everything simultaneously is really necessary to maintain a good and healthy relationship with the near ones. Isn’t it true? Can anybody justify this?
Why do people work? Do they work for their own or to gain mental satisfaction or to feed their families their near and dear ones or just they are bound to do some activity as per nature’s rule…what? What drags them to work? Is it purely driven by the system of the society or by their self realization or will? In the past history our ancestors used to work for to feed their families…they worked for their survival…some did farming and some did other works…but at that time they lived a peaceful life…
But now the picture has changed…even still now to say clearly people are doing their jobs in their own fields very efficiently but still their remained a dissatisfaction…we can’t predict any person that he / she is completely happy with their work status…this is all happening just because of tremendous competition…every body is trying to gain wealth and prosperity as much as they can but nobody is thinking about the real fact…they are turning into a machine…their work culture and procedure is nothing different than a machine…yes, they might are earning for their families but they are not been able to give as much time to their near ones…these days work culture used to run like, in this manner say…a person after almost a sleepless night wakes up in the morning, have his breakfast and then run to the office…this I am telling about the office going people to those busy people who don’t have time for their families…after a long work.. suppose starting from the morn at 8 o’ clock till evening at 8:30 these people returns to their home with immense pressure and fatigue and tiredness…their health does not permit them to work or to think on the extra topic they even don’t get time to speak to their children and wives..They come like a guest who is very tired dare to sleep in their own house without any obstruction and then after having their dinner finally go to sleep, again on the next day the same case happens and it starts to repeat day after day…
These people don’t be able to maintain social relationships just because of their jobs their wish to achieve the highest position in their field and just because of the craziness for their work…can anybody state that what makes them work so much? What will bring peace in their mind and they will be able to make out a little time for their families? What happens to their families and their near ones when they see their man is working throughout the whole day without giving any attention towards them??What’s the reason behind it? Why there is so much competition?? Why the people can’t spend their times with doing all sorts of activities including their jobs simultaneously…like their own ancestors did before…why? Balancing everything simultaneously is really necessary to maintain a good and healthy relationship with the near ones. Isn’t it true? Can anybody justify this?
Friday, August 8, 2008
Introduction...
I am Priyanka. A Bengali girl from Kolkata (India)…who have come abroad to create her future…this might be quite not important to all of you...you people might have think that every person have their own future… so, what’s new in it? But in this respect I would like to say that my example is bit different…I had always and even still now some wish to do something new and different…
I was a simple girl who was born and brought up in a very conservative family at Kolkata…never known about her future…what she would do? What is her motto of life? What’s her view? etc..etc..She only learnt that after completing her education…she will get married..and become depressed always of thinking that she doesn’t have anything to do…she had an idea that after marriage life stops…no one can be able to create their own destiny…the only thing that remains is to work for the family and to devote themselves completely by and for the family people…this was her trauma…as she never get out of the fact that the modern life style has completely changed…coz she only saw the restricted and dominating side of the society but not of the today’s fact…
As usual after she completed her graduation she got married to a person whom her elders selected for her…she was frightened of…what would happen after marriage? But her thought was completely turned wrong by her husband…he is a very caring and darling man…with full of affection and love and have an attachment to his wife…it’s because of him I came abroad and now creating a site pranayan.org by myself and daily writing about Japanese language and its culture…its now have become a complete involvement and I am enjoying this work a lot….what ever happened and those what I have achieved is all because of my husband…Utsab.
I was a simple girl who was born and brought up in a very conservative family at Kolkata…never known about her future…what she would do? What is her motto of life? What’s her view? etc..etc..She only learnt that after completing her education…she will get married..and become depressed always of thinking that she doesn’t have anything to do…she had an idea that after marriage life stops…no one can be able to create their own destiny…the only thing that remains is to work for the family and to devote themselves completely by and for the family people…this was her trauma…as she never get out of the fact that the modern life style has completely changed…coz she only saw the restricted and dominating side of the society but not of the today’s fact…
As usual after she completed her graduation she got married to a person whom her elders selected for her…she was frightened of…what would happen after marriage? But her thought was completely turned wrong by her husband…he is a very caring and darling man…with full of affection and love and have an attachment to his wife…it’s because of him I came abroad and now creating a site pranayan.org by myself and daily writing about Japanese language and its culture…its now have become a complete involvement and I am enjoying this work a lot….what ever happened and those what I have achieved is all because of my husband…Utsab.
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